Lovetastic: dating for gay men who believe in love

I'm an intelligent, attractive, talented and God blessed nice guy, with my share of flaws. I am open to meeting new people, sharing myself, making friends and dating hopefully, someone who will become a life partner.

A diehard New Yorker (love and hate it), I enjoy growing, spiritually, personally, professionally and learning to be more present and appreciative of the moment. I am actively involved in my church and my faith is important to me. You don't have to share my views and beliefs but respect them and have your own spiritual journey.

My passion and profession is music. I've had the good fortune to sing, record and perform all over the world and I look forward to sharing more of my soul and ...as I like to say...singing and eating my way accross the world. Aside from performing, some of what I enjoy and do are bike, hike, blade, swim, travel, do yoga, dance and dine but what I enjoy DOing most is BEing. I am finding, that to be an art in itself.

What do I like in a man? I find intelligent, articulate, witty and confident men so sexy. Love a sense of humor, from silly to irony. Yes, it's great if he's handsome and has a great body but what is more important to me is that he cares about his own health and well being and takes care of himself...for himself. Kind, sensuous, affectionate, great kisser. (kissing's one of my favorite sports). Most of all...someone I can talk to and who will talk to me. There is nothing like feeling safe to be who you truly are and such a gift to have someone feel that safe with you. I want to be with and be, a man with more joy, peace, hope, faith and humor than saddness and anger.

I realize a relationship takes time, patience, communication and risk. I've been a serial monogamist, who in past, long term affairs of the heart, has been the breaker and the broken. Yeah, "All o God's chilluns got luggage." I'm learning to leave the baggage, take the lessons and keep those hopeful romantic parts of myself,