Lovetastic: dating for gay men who believe in love

"This is your big chance to show off your polished purple prose. . ."

I thought they didn't want us to talk dirty on this site. . .oh, never mind. .

Seriously though, I'm aware of my good points: Educated, morally and socially aware, family oriented (I want to be a parent someday, sooner rather than later), smart and funny. I'm also aware of my bad points and I'm working on them. I'm looking for someone with awareness of, and action on, their good and bad points.

I'm looking to actually meet people within a week or two of having established mutual interest.

I like and try to use honesty and polite directness. I appreciate that in others.

It wasn't the movie. I was watching "The Notebook" with my then bf, and although I thought the film really didn't work, at the end my bf was weeping with a low, soft wail. It was one of the sadest moments I've ever had.

Who Moved My Cheese.

Anything Sondheim. Dramatic piano sonatas. Serious, well-written Broadway like "Titanic: The Musical". Tenor arias. Some Opera. The Kill, Puddle of Mudd, Tool.

Anything with Meryl Streep. Sophie's Choice. The Hours. Thelma and Louise. Brokeback Mountain (for more than the obvious "Yeah, a mainstream gay film!") Airplane! The Hunt for Red October, The Naked Gun

A Sunday Afternoon on the Island of La Grande Jatte

What's going to happen is going to happen, it's about how I respond to it.

The fact that in the end, the only thing we have or leave with is love or lack thereof.