cjbanksf

Hopeless romantic in SF

35-years-old
San Francisco CA [US]

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The Essay

Love day-trips, the outdoors, and exploring life with someone who has the same enthusiasm and does not always need the re-affirming that everything is OK. I enjoy a guy who can communicate as this I feel is essential to any kind of relationship lasting: friendship, FB, or lover. The other rule I live by is "a closed mouth does not get fed", if you want something ask me as I have yet to be able to be a mind reader, one day maybe but not yet. Anyway so if you are still reading here is a little about me, I am 32, brn, blu, 194 lbs, 6' 2", and I am positive. I love the outdoors, hiking, surfing, camping, and anything to do with the ocean. What I would like in a guy? Hmm... Physical and emotional availability would be first thing, not scared of intimacy, what I like physically is white or middle-eastern guys generally like taller than 5' 11" body or facial hair is a big plus, under 45 would be nice too, and really like a guy who is comfortable in his skin does not need to fit into a mold but instead be yourself. Not a healthy eater here but am always evolving and trying new things, I am very active, and would like a guy who also has an active side. I am also a romantic, it is one of the thing I truly love about myself. I am also described as one hell of a communicator. I do not let thing fester up, generally talk about it and let it go so I can move on to something more eventful. in the same regard I am an active listener. I love to listen and am always questioning who I am and how I can improve myself. If you have made it this far and are interested please feel free to drop me a line and let's see what happens. My favorite quote is "One of these days someone will walk into your life and make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else..."

The Lovetastic Interview
What is the most irritating invention?

The cell phone, I love the fact that we can stay connected but it is starting to take the place of human contact

How do you like to waste your time?

Walking or biking around the city.

What makes you confused?

Politics confuse me

What is the farthest you've ever been from home?

One coast or the other been on both and I am from the midwest

What do you like most about yourself?

That I am very loyal, and know how to ask for what I want.

What do you think about Will and Grace?

Do not really watch the show

Have you ever fired a gun?

Yes, at a shooting range, and with my brother hunting

What sort of pet, if any, do you prefer?

Dogs, but love all animals

Are you a good cook?

I am OK, but cooking for just myself is kind of hard

Have you ever broken a bone?

No

"Tell me what you like, I'll tell you what you are." -John Ruskin
Favorite books

I'm reading this book right no called "If the Budda dated" and it is one of the funniest and most involved book I think I have read in quite some time

Favorite music

Love everything except opera

Favorite film(s)

Playing By Heart, Singles, Elizabeth, and Atonement

Favorite ideas

A closed mouth does not get fed, more of a saying.

Other interests

The ocean, anything outdoors, and animals.

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