Lovetastic: dating for gay men who believe in love

I'm looking for like-minded folks in NYC for meeting up for coffee, verbal foreplay or any other mildly hysterical urban adventures you have in mind. I'm not into any scene really, life's too short and everything tastes really good, so if you're a meth-addled gym rat or a bear, please look elsewhere. If you're not, but you are in your 30's and you clean up well and people say you aren't hard to look at and you have some ideas of your own, hit me up!

hasn't Rush Limbaugh published some doggerel lately?

I'm Southern. I'd have to say the Civil War, even if we fought for all the wrong reasons. Also, being a member of the Theban Band would not have sucked (until that last meeting w/Alexander).

It's in Alabama. Hey, "unique" doesn't necessarily mean "good."

Ayn Rand was nobody's lass. And I bet she was a huge bore. Same with Goldman. Give me Eleanor Roosevelt any day. Smart, savvy, good writer, gifted speaker, overcame her shyness and overbite, and loved her dear ones dearly. Plus, you know she could mix a great martini. Schlafly can kiss my ass.

Nope. Love the history, the respectful formality, the drama, the fugly hats. But they should really return the bling and real estate over to the people of England.

I came to the conclusion that being nice is way overrated, but that kindness seems to be a lost art. So, if I died and people said I was truly, truly kind, I'd be ok with that. Oh, and of course amazingly generous and sexy and adorable. But kind would be just great.

To Kill a Mockingbird
Anna Karenina
Bel Canto

Mozart, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Bach, Loretta Lynn, Verdi, Miles Davis, Schubert, Sigur Ros, Stravinsky, Jason Mraz.

To Kill a Mockingbird. Again.
GWTW, Batman, Manhattan, Rosemary's Baby, Bergman, Almovodar, anything French, anything that has lots of things being blown up in space for two hours in big Armageddon-like fashion.

Picasso, Vermeer, Sargent, Miro, new folks no one's heard of, big Greek statues of hard-assed beautiful men and boys, "world" art: Thailand, Mexico, China, Brazil

GREAT IDEAS: The idea that I should be able marry whomever I love, lazing about, mutual respect, the social contract, gravity, dark chocolate, France, winning the lottery, swimming nekkid in the ocean at night, that music is healing and redeeming and cleansing, friendship, solitude, chicken fried steak, kindness. WAIT - I hate gravity. Change that. Why do you think I do all that yoga?!