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Been here for 10 years now--and I'm still not sure if that officially makes you a New Yorker. But ever since I saw The Secret of My Success when I was 8, I knew I wanted to live here.

Then I saw The Lost Boys and knew I wanted to be an actor. And ever since then, I've discovered loves for the 80's (movies and music), jazz, photography, the out-of-doors, Hawaii, Savannah GA, and dinner parties/game nights with best friends, cheap wine and stupid games.

And I like guys who can talk to anyone, but don't need to be the center of attention all the time; masculine, charming, confident, awkward and shy, yet can still have fun dancing once in a while. And someone who puts being himself in front of being gay.

Didn't Michael Jackson date Lisa Marie?

Oh, this question. I guess somewhere between liberal and radical. But I usually get into politics only when there's an election coming up (or one that's gone wrong).

City. In 10 years would like a second home in the country though.

Late Spring/early Summer. It's the beginning of the most relaxed, outdoorsy, calm time of the year. And the end of allergy season.

Meaningful. But it's rare that this happens (for me anyway).

I've stopped taking plastic bags at Trader Joe's, and moved on to paper. Next step is to buy one of those re-usable ones.

I have a studio, and there is a TV in it.

I guess I can go either way. Usually don't get to bed before 1, and don't like to sleep too late either.

When it's hotter than 95 degrees.

Nope. But stepped on a Zebra mollusk/muscle (?) in the bottom of Keuka Lake and sliced my foot open.

Watership Down, The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier and Clay, Lord of the Flies, And Then There Were None, The Hotzone, Almost Like Being In Love, Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban

Duncan Sheik, Seal, Sade, Tears For Fears, Live, Madonna, Des'ree, Miles Davis, Chet Baker, Diana Krall, REM, Mark Eitzel, Queen Latifah, Ne-Yo, John Mayer, Ben Folds

The Lost Boys, Terms of Endearment, The Secret of My Success, Shakespeare In Love, Mulan, Jaws, Titanic, Center Stage, Little Miss Sunshine, Spacecamp, The Birdcage, Donnie Darko, Billy Elliott, Running On Empty

Escher, Ansel Adams, Norman Rockwell, Dali

Why are there interstate highways in Hawaii?

Extreme cake-making